Projectional Love. It’s good to understand because to some extent, we all project onto everyone we date. But now, let’s discuss how to create the kind of love that makes long-term relationships work, Relational Love. Relational Love means continually making the CHOICE to see, love, and accept our partners for who they truly are RIGHT NOW…and now…and now… It’s about choosing love, again and again, no matter what.
DO YOU HAVE A DEEP FEAR OF COMMITMENT? I do. But I just never knew it. I have always felt FULLY available for romantic commitment; always wanting a man who wants all of me, forever. But the thing is, I have never ever chosen that man to love.