If so, I’ve been there. I was there for most of my life. I always wanted to be attracted to a different type of person. Someone sexy, kind, and thoughtful, who didn’t consistently trigger me when they were just being themselves. Someone that didn’t keep activating my anxious attachment system, but naturally showed up for me in the exact way I wanted.
HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED TRUE LOVE? The first question to ask yourself is: DO I CHOOSE MY ROMANTIC PARTNERS?
OR DO THEY CHOOSE ME? To me, it usually feels like WE CHOOSE EACH OTHER!! Right?! But is that actually true?